Intro to Emotional Intelligence

Intro to Emotional Intelligence

Just about everyone knows someone who is skilled at picking up on the emotions others are feeling, interpreting them in context and responding to them in a way that promotes positive outcomes. Emotional intelligence, or EI, is the term researchers use to describe the ability some people have to recognize and use others’ or their own emotions to improve their lives. More than simply an intuitive ability to recognize and interpret feelings, EI refers to the process of evaluation that people use to react quickly and advantageously to their own or another’s emotions.

For example, rather than wishing away a blue mood, a person with high emotional intelligence may take advantage of the enhanced ability to think analytically during periods of sadness in order to improve another aspect of his or her life. Another example would be the quick-thinking cashier who recognizes when a customer is becoming frustrated and immediately takes steps to diffuse the situation and enable a solution.

Researchers have identified four key factors of EI:

Perceiving Emotions:  This is ability to evaluate and accurately interpret facial expressions, body language, vocal tone and other clues that indicate what a person might be feeling.

Reasoning with Emotions:  This factor refers to the ability to harness the power of emotions, whether they belong to the person or someone else, in order to make better decisions.

Understanding Emotions:  An outgrowth of the factors mentioned above, this refers to being able to interpret emotions, understand where they are coming from and what bearing they may have on the current situation.

Managing Emotions: Not to be confused with self-control, the most advanced application of EI is the ability to use it to take advantage of the power of emotions. Choosing a career in which you can channel your passion for an activity and achieve your highest performance is one way. Another way to manage emotions is approaching your boss about a raise just when they are pumped up after an excellent evaluation from their own supervisor, for example.

The four factors are arranged in order of increasing sophistication. Wherever you may fall on the emotional intelligence scale, you can use your skills to improve your life and your relationships with others. Additionally, many researchers theorize that you can take steps to increase your own emotional intelligence.

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Mayer, John D. “What Emotional Intelligence Is and Is Not.” Psychology Today; Accessed Sept. 16, 2014.

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Tips for Saving a Wet Cellular Phone!

Tips for Saving a Wet Cellular Phone!

Plop plop fizz fizz does not mean relief when it happens to be your submerged cellphone making the noise. Many of us have soaked our cellphone, whether it happened to fall into the toilet, a swimming pool or a bowl of soup. Before you toss your phone and go buy a new one, here are a few ways to rescue your precious communication device.

First, remove the device from the brink. Quickly dry off the outside but don’t press any buttons, including the power button. Then remove the battery. If the particular device does not allow for quick battery removal, shut the power down to avoid a short circuit. Then remove the SIM card.

Whatever insides you can reach, carefully dry with a clean cloth. Some people advocate blowing out the insides with compressed air. This is risky because blown moisture sometimes finds its way even deeper into the device.

Now we have a couple choices for what to do next:

The most common method of absorbing the moisture from cellphones is to loosely wrap your phone inside a thin cotton cloth or paper towel, immerse in rice, any kind of uncooked rice, and leave it for a day or two.

Yet there is a better way. Synthetic desiccants like Silica gel are capable of absorbing moisture very quickly and used by manufacturers of a variety of products. These are the little sachet packets found inside new shoes, purses and may be shipped with products that you order.

Insert a few of these sachets, along with your phone, into an airtight container, for instance an empty coffee canister. Leave them gelling at least a day. Then insert the battery and SIM card and push the power button. Start saving these little desiccant treasures, for one never knows when a drowning cellphone might need them.

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How to Lighten Your Hair Naturally

How to Lighten Your Hair Naturally

Highlighting or lightening your hair is a perfect way to refresh a look, particularly at the beginning of a new season. However, most lighteners used in salons or sold in drugstores contain an array of chemicals, which can strip the hair of its shine and wreak havoc on the scalp. In addition, heading to a salon for a professional service can be quite expensive.

Instead, men and women can try one or more of the following options for easy, all-natural, non-chemical hair lightening. The results will be a subtle shade lighter and brighter, not a drastic change. For increased lightening, one can mix two or three of these options and sit in full sun for about one half hour.

Lemon Juice

One of the most popular natural lighteners, lemon juice can create lighter colored streaks due to its citric acid. However, because it can be harsh to the hair, it should be diluted with water or olive oil by mixing 1 cup lemon juice to ¼ cup water or olive oil, for or a softening effect.


Honey is much less harsh than lemon juice and even comes with its own conditioning properties. It works similarly to hydrogen peroxide, but should be mixed with water in a ratio of one cup honey and ¼ cup water before use, in order to reduce the stickiness.

Chamomile Tea

Chamomile has become so popular that some hair product brands are creating shampoos and conditioners with this botanical ingredient. It is particularly useful for blondes who can use a cooled pot of chamomile tea to soak their hair.


Cinnamon is one of the best lightening choices for brunettes because it will not turn the hair orange. However, this common kitchen spice will need something to stick to in the hair. One can rub conditioner throughout the hair first before distributing a mixture of one part cinnamon and one part water from the root to the end of each strand. For best results, cover the hair with a plastic bag and sleep with the mixture on the hair for 6-8 hours.

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Saul, Ilana; Beauty DIY: Natural Hair Lighteners; Lauren Conrad; accessed October 21, 2014

Krause, Rachel; 4 DIY Ways to Lighten Hair Naturally; Yahoo Beauty; accessed October 21, 2014

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What to Say to Someone with Depression

What to Say to Someone with Depression

Depression is often more serious than an outsider might think. Although some may look at the depressed person’s circumstances and feel a response roll right off the tongue, it pays to stop and think about what to say before offering unhelpful or even hurtful advice. Advice and comments must always be made in a non-blaming manner.

Here are five great examples of what to tell someone who is feeling depressed:

“You are right. This is discouraging.”

A person who is feeling depressed needs to be validated and receive empathy. At this point, the individual does not need a problem-solver nor do they need to be told what they should be doing. They simply need some basic understanding and a listening ear.

“You are a valuable person.”

Along with validation, the individual needs to comprehend that the way he or she is feeling does not affect personal value. This can help a depressed person believe in themselves and regain some hope.

What can I do to help you out?”

People who feel depressed sometimes have a hard time getting out of bed, getting out of the house or caring for daily needs. A little help getting groceries, cleaning the house or running errands can mean a great deal to them. You can also offer to drive them to a doctor’s appointment or to a hospital, if necessary.

“I am here for you to do what you want to do.”

This can be a great way to give the individual a nudge in the right direction. It can be an offer to take a walk together, watch a movie together or some other favorite activity.

“Remember that this is a temporary circumstance.”

A depressed person may think that the way he or she feels will “last forever.” This phrase can give them some much-needed perspective on the situation.

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Stewart, Kristen; 7 Best and Worst Things to Say to Someone with Depression; Everyday Health; accessed September 24, 2014

Smith, Melinda, M.A., Suzanne Barston and Jeanne Segal, Ph.D.; Helping a Depressed Person; Helpguide; accessed September 24, 2014

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Fall in Love with a Healthier Pumpkin Pie

Fall in Love with a Healthier Pumpkin Pie

Pumpkin pie is a wonderfully versatile dessert that can be made several different ways. Some recipes include rich, high-caloric ingredients, while other recipes incorporate low calorie and low sugar options. This healthier recipe, while lighter in calories, is in no way lighter in taste or flavor.

Pumpkin Pie Recipe

Pie Crust

  • 1-1/2 cups all-purpose or pastry flour
  • 1 tsp. salt
  • ½ cup of vegetable oil or canola oil
  • 1/3 cup sugar or 1/2 tsp. stevia
  • between 2 and 4 Tbs. of water


  1. Preheat the oven to 200°F. Combine all of the dry ingredients into a large mixing bowl and stir. Once combined, add in the oil and stir. Slowly add the water 1 tablespoon at a time until the dough forms, adhering well but not sticky.
  2. Press the dough into a 10-inch pie pan and then place it into the oven. Increase the oven temperature to 350 degrees F. and bake for approximately 15 minutes. The dough will rise, so be sure to use pie weights during the baking process, or simply pat the finished piecrust down after removing it from the oven. Allow it to cool before adding the pumpkin pie filling.

Pie Filling


  1. Preheat the oven to 400°F. Combine all of the ingredients and blend using a mixer until smooth. Once the ingredients are well-incorporated, pour the mixture into the prepared pie pan with crust.
  2. Bake for approximately 25-27 minutes. Take the pie out of the oven and allow it to cool. Once it cools, place the pie in the refrigerator for at least 5 hours (uncovered) to let it fully thicken. Serve after cooling.

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Katie; Healthy Pumpkin Pie Recipe; Chocolate Covered Katie; accessed October 4, 2014

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Coconut Water vs. Coconut Milk: What’s the Difference?

Coconut Water vs. Coconut Milk: What's the Difference?

To get a better understanding of the differences between coconut water and coconut milk it’s helpful to learn the exact properties of each.

Coconut water is actually the liquid that’s found in the cavity of the coconut. Coconut water contains beneficial vitamins and minerals. It is especially praised for the percentage of potassium, magnesium and manganese it provides. It is also a good source of vitamin C, riboflavin, calcium and fiber. It is important to note that coconut water is high in sodium.

Coconut milk is derived from what is known as the meat or the flesh of the coconut and has a rich, creamy taste. The Med-Health website touts a variety of health benefits associated with coconut milk, such as its high content of magnesium and phosphorous. Coconut milk may help prevent osteoporosis, reduce inflammation and assist in the absorption of vitamins.

A major difference between coconut water and coconut milk is the calorie content of each. Mother Nature Network shows just how extreme that difference is in their analysis of each. One cup of coconut milk contains about 500 calories and 50 grams of fat. If you want to use coconut milk in cooking because of its high nutritional value and taste, but are watching your saturated fat, you can opt for less rich, low-fat coconut milk.

On the other hand, one cup of coconut water contains only 45 calories. Coconut water is an alternative to higher-sodium sports drinks and is praised for its ability to combat dehydration. On the other hand, coconut milk is often used in moderation in smoothies, mixed beverages and in recipes, as a substitute for milk.

Although there is a distinct difference between coconut water and coconut milk, both can be incorporated into a healthy lifestyle diet plan provided they are used in the most beneficial manner.

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Nuts, Coconut Milk; Self Nutritional Data: accessed December 12, 2014

Zelman, Kathleen; The Truth about Coconut Water; WebMD; accessed December 12, 2014

Nelson, Jennifer; Coconut milk or coconut water: What’s the difference? Mother Nature Network; December 12, 2014

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iHerb Wants to Reward You Contest: Win $300 or $150 iHerb Rewards Credit

iHerb Wants to Reward You Contest

For the last several weeks, iHerb has been sharing information with you regarding our Rewards Program. First, we discussed different ways you can earn Rewards. Then we showed you how to attract more Rewards Customers through the use of various iHerb tools as well as through social media.  To review all those articles, please visit the iHerb Rewards Category on iHerb’s Healthy Haven Blog.

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Beneficial Supplements for Children’s Eyesight

Beneficial Supplements for Children’s Eyesight

Although many children have good eyesight, a surprising one in twenty preschoolers have some kind of problem with their vision. While most concerns are not serious, some will require medical intervention to prevent future problems. For example, children with nearsightedness or farsightedness will most likely need to see an ophthalmologist to be fitted for a pair of glasses. Other vision problems that children may face include color blindness, crossed eyes, a lazy eye or astigmatism. In fact, if some problems are not addressed early, other problems can develop later in life, such as macular degeneration or cataracts.

When looking at supplements for children, parents should keep in mind that many vitamins and other nutrients can be received through healthy foods, such as fruits, vegetables and lean meats. However, because some children can be rather picky eaters, ophthalmologists may recommend a particular supplement or daily children’s multivitamin. These top options are vital for children’s eye health.

Vitamin A

Possibly the most important supplement for vision at all ages, vitamin A is particularly necessary for retinal health. Vitamin A deficiency can lead to night vision problems and may even cause complete blindness in serious cases.

Vitamin C

Often thought of for its role in immune health, vitamin C is actually quite important for visual health as well, even through old age, because it can reduce problems such as poor eye pressure and macular degeneration.

Vitamin E

Similar to vitamin C, vitamin E should also be included in one’s diet or as a supplement from childhood on. It is known for decreasing the risk of cataracts and macular degeneration.


This omega-6 fatty acid is found primarily in cold-water fish and in fish oil supplements but is particularly important for eye health during the first year of a child’s life. In fact, it is found in most infant formulas.

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Dakota, Milo; Vitamins for Children’s Eye Health; Livestrong; accessed October 20, 2014

Nurmi, Deborah; Children’s Vision and Eye Care Basics; WebMD; accessed October 20, 2014

Eyesight and Food; Eyerobics; accessed October 20, 2014

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Five Kinds of Cheese High in Probiotics

Five Kinds of Cheese High in Probiotics

Probiotics are good bacteria commonly found in the intestines. They help digest food completely and fight against unhealthy bacteria that can compromise a person’s immune system. Excessive amounts of probiotics can cause bloating and stomach upset; however, when eaten in small to moderate portions, probiotics have a wide range of healthful effects.

Dairy products are an excellent food source, and many are aware of the beneficial properties of yogurt for fighting against a variety of infections, such as urinary tract infections, yeast infections and diarrhea. Cheese is also an excellent source of probiotics. Although not every cheese is a top contender, these are a few of the best options.


A delicious yellowish-orange cheese that comes in a wide array of flavors — from mild to sharp, cheddar originally hails from England. For the best flavor, cheddar may be aged up to six years.


A white cheese known for the characteristic holes that form during the fermentation process, Swiss also comes in a mild baby Swiss variety. It is made from cow’s milk and originally came from Switzerland. Another type of Swiss cheese made from cow’s milk, Gruyere, is loved for its semi-soft texture and nutty flavor.


Gouda is one of the best sources of probiotics because the bacteria in it can mostly survive the trek through the acidic stomach and make it unscathed into the intestines.


A favorite raw cheese of many, this chunky option has a distinctive taste and aroma. This soft Greek cheese has traditionally been made from sheep’s or goat’s milk but can also be made from cow’s milk. It is often used to top Greek salads.


A delicious Italian cheese, Provolone is loved for its smooth texture and mild taste. It is often used on cold cuts.

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Food Sources of Probiotics; Probiotic Now; accessed September 15, 2014

Girdwain, Jessica; 10 Unexpected Sources of Probiotics; Woman’s Day; accessed September 15, 2014

Casto, Rae; What Raw Cheese Has Probiotics?; Livestrong; accessed September 15, 2014

Types of Cheeses; International Dairy Foods Association; accessed September 15, 2014

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How to Curb Food Waste at Home

How to Curb Food Waste at Home

Most of us don’t have money to throw away, and throwing out spoiled or unused food is doing exactly that. One of the best methods to encourage yourself begin to reduce waste is to start adding up what poor food management costs you over a period of time, such as one month. Trust me, you will be surprised.

Here are some areas to focus on to reduce your food loss.

Learn the Shelf Life of Foods

One of the best ways to reduce waste is to learn what you can stock up on. Products that you can store for several months can be bought on sale and stored in your pantry. Make sure you have a system in place so that the oldest is used first. You may want to label the purchase dates of your food.

Storing Your Food

One of the largest areas of food loss is storage. Food should be stored right away after a meal. To be a success with this, you need to have proper, sealed storage containers in various sizes. Label your containers. If you will use the stored item a few days, then don’t freeze it. If you don’t use the item within two days, and the item is in good condition, freeze it.

Meal Planning

Plan to use fresh items first. You might want to use more fresh items on the weekends or on the days you don’t work if they involve more time to prepare. Plan a strategy to use up leftovers. For example, a left over roast can be used for lunch sandwiches for several days, or cut up in small pieces and stored to make a soup or stew in the future. One or two days a week, you should cook up your leftovers into a stew, sauce or soup. You can store these foods for those days when you don’t have time to cook.

Learn to Share With Others

Bring leftovers to work or share with friends. Keep track of when you will be away, and buy less for these times. If you see items that will expire soon, don’t be afraid to give these to a food bank or other organization. They will thank you.

Start a Compost Heap

Many people recycle food by turning it into compost, which is good for the environment and eventually helps grow new food. Even if you don’t want to garden, a compost pile requires minimal care. This is a great place to put food scraps and expired items without filing up the local landfill.

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Tips to Start Saving Money and Stop Wasting Food; the kitchn; accessed on Nov. 20, 2014.

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